Do you want to meet a guy at school but don’t want to meet him in the pub or the library, and you don’t want to date anyone in your class?
This is what you do:
- Go to the Student Life Centre at your school (or find the club link from your school’s internet site) and get a list of all of the existing student clubs. If there are any that you are curious about, even if it’s something you’ve never done before or never considered doing but sounds exciting enough to check out, ask for more information and GO to a meeting or event!! You CAN bring a friend but it would be much more wholesome and real experience for yourself to go on your own (you can always bring a friend into it later if you really want to).
- If something about (or someone in) the club catches your eye at a meeting/event, sign up! Getting to know people while doing something fun is not only FUN, but you learn a lot about people’s true personalities such as their level of competitiveness, respect, thoughtfulness, intelligence, tact, creativity, etc.
- With the club, you’re bound to spend time with that guy that caught your eye, so don’t rush into anything, be cool and keep it real.
- A good thing about a club is that you can leave at anytime if you feel you need to. Don’t be afraid to leave a club and check out another one, or check out a few from the start and stay in the one like the most.
There are a lot of options for clubs out there such as Salsa Dancing, Swing Dancing, Running, Anthropology, Chess, Art History, Kayaking, Mountain Biking, Sustainable Living, Astronomy, Yoga, Parkour and the lists go on!!! Find out what’s available at YOUR school!
Good luck and enjoy your time away from your television set and your computer.
Stay tuned for Part 2 of How to Find Your Dream Guy, coming soon.
If you haven’t read Part 1, click here.
